There are different types of bullying that could happen to a person - refer to link for more information.
Verbal bullying includes behaviors such as: name-calling, mocking, hurtful teasing, humiliating or threatening someone, racist comments, or sexual harassment. (http://prevnet.ca/BullyingFacts/tabid/94/Default.aspx)
True story:
I experienced verbal bullying at the age of 14 years old but then, no help was seek as I do not want people to be involved. Even though the names that were used at me are not crucial but it really hurts.
There was a boy that started it all & it's all because of an incident. Anyway, ever since that, he started calling me names.
Due to having insecurity already, it added on to my insecurity & make me feel worse than ever. I started hating myself and hate going to school.
What make it worse was some of my classmates that I've known first joined him. But I didn't show that I was hurting, instead when he/others teased me, I pretended to laugh along with them.
The only thing I do to feel better was crying myself at when going to bed & then, the next morning, I feel better. Sometimes I will make excuses to not go to school... I survived the whole year & was happy when I found out that the next year I will have a change of class. I guess that was the start of something new cos ever since that, my insecurity lessens!
But of course, what I did to face the situation may not be suitable to everyone as I just swallowed all the pain & kept it to myself. Even though I am better now but the incident will never be forgotten.
***It is advisable that if you are being bullied, do talk to someone you trust.
Peace :)
Verbal bullying includes behaviors such as: name-calling, mocking, hurtful teasing, humiliating or threatening someone, racist comments, or sexual harassment. (http://prevnet.ca/BullyingFacts/tabid/94/Default.aspx)
True story:
I experienced verbal bullying at the age of 14 years old but then, no help was seek as I do not want people to be involved. Even though the names that were used at me are not crucial but it really hurts.
There was a boy that started it all & it's all because of an incident. Anyway, ever since that, he started calling me names.
Due to having insecurity already, it added on to my insecurity & make me feel worse than ever. I started hating myself and hate going to school.
What make it worse was some of my classmates that I've known first joined him. But I didn't show that I was hurting, instead when he/others teased me, I pretended to laugh along with them.
The only thing I do to feel better was crying myself at when going to bed & then, the next morning, I feel better. Sometimes I will make excuses to not go to school... I survived the whole year & was happy when I found out that the next year I will have a change of class. I guess that was the start of something new cos ever since that, my insecurity lessens!
But of course, what I did to face the situation may not be suitable to everyone as I just swallowed all the pain & kept it to myself. Even though I am better now but the incident will never be forgotten.
***It is advisable that if you are being bullied, do talk to someone you trust.
Peace :)
azrinaziz
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